A Scene We Know

You started drinking again for a brief time.  A day, two, maybe a week.  Some people call this a “slip” - sounds innocent enough - afterall you were able to stop, right?  

You begin to think, “close call,” I’ve avoided some real trouble.  

You get some rest, eat something, clean up the immediate mess in front of you (work, family, health, etc.), and breathe a sigh of relief.  

You start feeling better.

We instinctively mistake “feeling better” with being better, because we want it to be so. We try to jump back up, and do exactly what we were doing, maybe a tweak here or there, but essentially the same things.   

Sound familiar?

And, that’s the mistake.  Right now, in that moment, there’s an opportunity in front of you—one that most people never realize exists.

The relapse was an alarm signal.  It’s trying to tell you something.

The Robber in the House: Why You’re Still in Danger

Imagine waking up to the sound of your house alarm blaring.

An intruder is inside.

Your pulse races. You sit up, listening. You hear movement. Noises and banging around. Footsteps.

The robber has your attention.  

You grab a flashlight, move cautiously through the house.  You can see your things rifled through, clear signs of an intruder.  But then …silence.

Now what?  Just go back to bed and forget about it?  Would you ever do this?  

Of course not.

You know—just because it’s silent doesn’t mean it’s safe.

The Relapse Was The Alarm

That’s exactly what happens with alcohol, immediately after a “slip.”

The relapse wasn’t random.  It was a revelation. It showed you undeniably that the alcohol is still alive inside your mind.  There’s a desire that’s still there, that can be ignited with the right conditions. 

1️⃣ Your brain still sees alcohol as an option.
2️⃣ That conditioning has not been broken.
3️⃣ If not actively dismantled, this will happen again.

Most people assume the problem was the drinking itself.  “Stop drinking, problem solved.”

But the real issue is the fact that your brain still holds alcohol as a viable choice.

And that’s what needs to change.

After A Relapse, We Need A Breakthrough 

Most of us respond to a relapse, by re-doubling our efforts to do more of what we were doing. 

Most people think it’s about:

❌ Getting better at resisting
❌ Learning more coping strategies
❌ Strengthening your willpower

More commitment, more discipline, more hope.  More of the same. 

But why does simply doing more not work?

Because the problem isn’t willpower. The problem is our brain’s conditioning.

Unless we change the way our brain sees alcohol—unless we rewire the system itself—we’ll always be at risk.

The Breakthrough Is To Eliminate Desire

Because when there’s no desire, there’s no threat.

That’s how you remove the intruder for good.

Now Is The Time

Pause and ask yourself:   

What is the one thing I would never let alcohol take from me?

That is what you’re protecting.  

You wouldn’t go back to sleep with an intruder still in your house. Of course not.

And now you’re awake.  Now you see it.

Take that next step and eliminate alcohol for good.  Now is the time!

Here’s to living better! Chris

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